Being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a loyal, sincere, and caring man is not as simple of a situation as it may seem to be. There may be a number of different complications associated with it as long as you don’t make your partner the confidante and let him know about your bisexuality. It is understandable for such women to be scared of coming out to their partners and being baffled while wondering whether or not it would be a good idea to let their partner know. Taking this into consideration, we have taken the liberty of mentioning a few of the prominent benefits that revealing your secret has to offer.
To begin with, as a bisexual woman, it is highly unlikely that you’d be attracted to women more than you are attracted to men. The fact that you can let him know how you’re more attracted to men than women, and better still, the fact that you are attracted to your partner and would like to keep your relationship should be more than sufficient for him to not let your bisexuality matter even a bit in your relationship. So why not tell him and get it over with.
If you are already married or in a relationships that you can clearly see is headed towards a marriage, then you may be familiar with the fact that marriage means putting all the cards on the table. It would never be a wise decision to hide such a huge fact from the person that you are about to marry. Let him be on board with all of your secrets so he can know you better and understand you better. Just because you don’t know of any of his past relationships with a bisexual woman doesn’t imply that he won’t be okay with the fact that you are bisexual. It is his decision to make and your negative speculation can end up ruining your relationships in the first place.
Last but not the least, coming out to your partner does also define how committed you two are towards each other. By revealing your huge secret, you can let him know that you are totally committed to him and are willing to put all the cards on the table and can also let you know how much you can trust him with your secrets and truths regardless of how painful they may be.
In the light of the information mentioned above, it can almost be taken for granted that there are a number of different benefits associated with coming out to your partner if you are a bisexual woman. It is a decision that you are not going to be disappointed of making. Sure, it is going to be really tough to let him know in the first place and you are going to have to get rid of a lot of inhibitions to come out to him. But once you are done and he handles it well, your relationship is only destined to get stronger than ever before.